Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Maryelle's 1st birthday celebration

- - January 11 - -
Yesterday was Maryelle’s 1st birthday celebration for her 5 years of life! It was nothing less than joyful to watch her experience this.
We are so thankful for her life and for the fact that God preserved her life by providing heart surgery in China and then bringing her to us. God has fearfully and wonderfully made her. We are awed and daunted by her special complexities.
We will never know the exact day of her birth since she was left at the institution at 9 months old with no note. But I do know that there is a mama somewhere in Yingshang that is remembering the sweet baby girl that she held for those 9 months.
Happy birthday, sweet girl! You have all of our love!



 




Big day of FIRSTS

- - January 7- -
Today has been a big day of FIRSTS for Maryelle. Things that I so easily took for granted with my other kids are now big celebrations after months of working toward the goal.
Today Maryelle had her first PLAYDATE; this is the first CHILD that she would interact with or even touch since being home; so therefore her first FRIEND; she's using basic WORDS to communicate fairly effectively (with her very patient friend), and she climbed a PLAYLAND for the first time (with it being remarkable that she could climb independently!) YAY for progress!




A day of sedation, tests, and results

- - December 29 - -
Maryelle was sedated for 6+ hours today so that more testing could be done.  She handled the whole situation quite well considering how traumatically she reacts to anything medical.
Maryelle had thick fluid in her ears so now is the owner of a set of ear tubes. Unfortunately, the syndrome has effected the inner ear and she has moderate to severe hearing loss (even with tubes) and will need hearing aids and much hearing impairment support. Because the inner ear is deformed, it affects her vestibular system and will cause her to always struggle with balance. Not the news we were hoping for.
Her nasal cavity is normal which is good. (This can also be a defect associated with the syndrome.)
We are hoping to find out the spinal and brain MRI results tomorrow.
I'll admit that it's very difficult to process information about your child that will be a life long challenge. It feels like so much for our little one. But with each issue, it's becoming more apparent the miracle God has done and is doing in giving our sweet girl a hope and a future. In China, her future was deafness, blindness and inability to learn to speak. We are thankful she is our daughter.

(This is her post-sedation asking "where's Hannah?")


- - December 30 - -
We got the MRI reports this afternoon from the neurologist and thankfully nothing showed up that we didn't already know!  Well other than M has only 11 ribs rather than 12!
The MRIs confirmed the genetic syndrome of CHARGE and showed that she has malformation of both inner ears which is the cause of the hearing loss. And her optic nerve is smaller in the left eye because of the defective eye size and Coloboma of the eye.
But no spots of brain damage or tethered spinal cord!!!
SO thankful to get this info today rather than waiting til Monday!

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!!
Here's a peek at the precious moments of Maryelle's first Christmas.







Giving-Thanks for aunts, uncles and cousins!

Meeting Aunt Wendy, first road trip to Aunt Sandra's and meeting Sincock side cousins.  Thankful!






National Adoption Day


- - November 21 - -
Today is National ADOPTION Day, so what better day to share new pictures of Maryelle! Today was a day of lots of 'firsts': carving pumpkins (yes, we're a little late), seeing snow, watching Frozen and decorating for Christmas (I know, I know, a bit early). This sweet girl is making the holidays extra special!






Basketball, anyone?


- - November 12 - -
Lil' sis helping big sis get ready for the season! #34 ‪#‎gocards